In Jim Crow Montgomery County, Maryland, it was easier for white folks’ pets to get a respectful burial than it was for the county’s African Americans. The indignity is compounded when you factor in the conditions of many Black cemeteries in Montgomery County versus the Aspin Hill pet cemetery. Many Black cemeteries have been abandoned and overgrown. Others, like Bethesda’s River Road Moses Cemetery, have been paved over.
Montgomery Preservation, Inc., a historic preservation advocacy group recently announced that it was giving its prestigious Wayne Goldstein advocacy award to someone for “documentation of, advocacy for preservation of historic Aspin Hill Pet Cemetery.”
The Aspin Hill pet cemetery is a protected historic site in Montgomery County, designated under the county’s historic preservation law. That means that the dogs, cats, and other pets buried there are protected from development in perpetuity. It also means that the cemetery gets a lot of attention.
The cemetery is located across the street from Gate of Heaven, a Catholic cemetery. Most cemeteries established in Montgomery County before c. 1980 were segregated. Formal and informal policies, church affiliation, and economics contributed to maintaining racial separation among the dead. Though the Catholic Cemeteries of the Archdiocese of Washington asserts that Gate of Heaven always was integrated, oral traditions among some Montgomery County African Americans suggest that the history is more nuanced. The irony of cemeteries set aside for Montgomery County pets and cemeteries where African Americans couldn’t be buried wasn’t lost on the county’s black residents.
Former River Road resident Harvey Matthews remembers family members who wanted to be buried in Gate of Heaven. An employer tried to make that dream come true. “So Mr. Eisinger promised him when he was a younger man working that he was going to see to it that he didn’t get buried where the rest of the blacks was buried in Lincoln Park because he didn’t think that cemetery was worthy to be buried in, Mr. Eisinger used to say,” Matthews recalled in 2017.
“He said, ‘You know what I’m going to do? I don’t know when your time will end or whatever, but I’m going to try to make you the first Black to be buried in the Gates of Heaven cemetery.’ And he said, ‘And damn it, not over where them damn dogs and cats are; I’m talking on the other side. I’m talking about the big cemetery’,” said Matthews.
Perhaps this was Matthews’s most stinging rebuke of the unequal treatment African Americans, pets, and whites received in death in Montgomery County: “That used to be a big stink one time about that cemetery because when I was younger I used to say, ‘Damn, how in the hell that they’ve got the cemetery where the dogs and cats go is better than the cemetery they’ve got at Lincoln Park to bury the Blacks in. The ones they’ve got in Poolesville and Tobytown,’ you know, like that.”
Winky, Leo, Scruffy Muffin, and Grey Fleas rest in perpetual care and under the protection of Montgomery County’s historic preservation law. Their loving humans and the children and grandchildren of those humans get to visit Aspin Hill Memorial Park and visit in a parklike, therapeutic setting. Cora Botts, her kin, and nearly 500 others lie beneath a Bethesda parking lot, their bones crushed and scattered throughout property owned by Montgomery County’s Housing Opportunities Commission.
In early 2017, the Montgomery County Planning Department declined to fasttrack a review to provide interim protection for the Moses Cemetery by listing it in the Locational Atlas of Historic Sites while research is completed for full historic designation under Montgomery County law. This despite knowing as early as 2015 that the Moses Cemetery exists and recommending purchasing the site as a park. Three years later, the River Road Moses Cemetery remains undesignated and unprotected beneath a parking lot.
At the same time white Montgomery County residents were paying to design and fabricate elaborate markers for their beloved pets, Black residents were using homemade concrete markers in their segregated cemeteries. Many of these markers are now broken. Others are eroding into illegibility. So while Montgomery County has a timeless memorial to its white pets, these grave sites which date to the same period in time are on borrowed time.
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I visited the Ash Memeorial Cemetery on June 5, 2022 and was brought to tears by the condition of the burial site. Something MUST be done about this! Graves damaged, grass so high you can no longer read the stones. Owners, have a heart DON’T ALLIOW this!
This is sooo inhumane for these families. Someone needs to fix this ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD LOVES EVERYONE, WE ARE ALL THE SAME!! We all deserve to rest in a beautiful place no matter where it is. This county, state should be ashamed!!